Are you ready to go deeper with your beloved

and uncover new levels of spiritual and sexual bliss?


Are you ready to feel so sexually awake with your partner

that you can completely surrender to them?


Are you ready to explore the edges of your desires

and find your yes to new juicy kinks?

If the answer is a full body yes, then you’re ready for..

 

An erotic couples retreat where you and your beloved explore the sacred arts of tantra and BDSM and unlock its synergistic power in the bedroom and beyond..

Full Body YES!

Tantra is a spiritual practice that can elevate our relationships with our beloved to the level of art.


BDSM is an erotic power exchange that pushes us to deepen and widen our communication,  intimacy, play and sexuality.

Join us for a weekend of exploration, intimacy, pleasure and play as we dive deep into the world of Tantra and BDSM. Dr. Cat and Mistress Colette Pervette will guide you through an immersive journey that will empower you and your lover to unleash your deepest desires and experience new levels of consciousness and erotic play together.

Join us for a weekend of exploration, intimacy, pleasure and play as we dive deep into the world of Tantra and BDSM. Dr. Cat and Mistress Colette Pervette will guide you through an immersive journey that will empower you and your lover to unleash your deepest desires and experience new levels of consciousness and erotic play together.

Throughout the weekend, you and your partner will learn the art of Tantra, including sensual techniques to deepen your intimacy, expand your pleasure and explore new avenues of connection. You'll also learn the essential tools and practices of kink, exploring each element of BDSM (Bondage and Discipline, Dominance and Submission and Sado-Masochism) and how to weave it into your intimate play.

Throughout the weekend, you and your partner will learn the art of Tantra, including sensual techniques to deepen your intimacy, expand your pleasure and explore new avenues of connection. You'll also learn the essential tools and practices of kink, exploring each element of BDSM (Bondage and Discipline, Dominance and Submission and Sado-Masochism) and how to weave it into your intimate play.

Eroticism + creativity can transform our sex from routine to an enlivening ritual that our whole body craves.


Step into your curiosity + devotion to discover your unbounded power and pleasure in play.

YES Please!

You and your partner will experience the wide range of intimate and sensual activities designed to deepen your orgasmic connection. From sensual massages to bondage and impact play, we'll help you explore the full spectrum of mild to wild pleasure and power play.

Count us in!
Count us in!

Our luxurious venue in the Berkeley hills provides the perfect playground for your weekend getaway.

From the moment you arrive, you'll be surrounded by lush greenery and a serene ambiance that will transport you to a world of sensuality and pleasure. 

You will also step into a private dungeon that is fully equipped with custom-made BDSM furniture and a wide array of kinky toys and gear to help you explore your wildest kinks in style.

  • Activating + moving erotic energy, weaving it with your lover's
  • Bringing your lover deep into sub space 
  • Energetic climax + trance states in sex
  • Breathwork + embodiment practices for reaching
    transcendent states of consciousness
  • Mechanics + techniques for bondage and impact play
  • Skills for infusing your play with erotic energy
    exchange using practices from Tantra
  • Lessons in polarity + power play to ignite + maintain desire
  • Turn erotic fantasies into reality with skills on crafting a meaningful arc in scene
  • Build trust + intimacy in power exchange
  • The art of dirty talk and skillful communication of your desires + boundaries
  • Create a safe space to deepen your erotic play
  • Bring out the sensual, playful, sacred, + kinky side of yourself
  • Play with the essential toys, tools, techniques of BDSM + Tantra
  • 3.5 days of curated playshops and activities
  • Daily meals, snacks and libations
  • Tour + access to professional dungeon +
    BDSM equipment and tools for practice
  • Gift bags with sensual + kinky goodies
  • Couples boudoir photoshoot 
  • Erotic closing ceremony 

Please note: Not included is airfare, transportation, or hotel stay. We recommend you book your stay at the nearby Claremont Hotel. Of course you are also welcome to stay anywhere in the Berkeley area.

  • Activating + moving erotic energy, weaving it with your lover's
  • Bringing your lover deep into sub space 
  • Energetic climax + trance states in sex
  • Breathwork + embodiment practices for reaching
    transcendent states of consciousness
  • Mechanics + techniques for bondage and impact play
  • Skills for infusing your play with erotic energy
    exchange using practices from Tantra
  • Lessons in polarity + power play to ignite + maintain desire
  • Turn erotic fantasies into reality with skills on crafting a meaningful arc in scene
  • Build trust + intimacy in power exchange
  • The art of dirty talk and skillful communication of your desires + boundaries
  • Create a safe space to deepen your erotic play
  • Bring out the sensual, playful, sacred, + kinky side of yourself
  • Play with the essential toys, tools, techniques of BDSM + Tantra
  • 3.5 days of curated playshops and activities
  • Daily meals, snacks and libations
  • Tour + access to professional dungeon +
    BDSM equipment and tools for practice
  • Gift bags with sensual + kinky goodies
  • Couples boudoir photoshoot 
  • Erotic closing ceremony 

Please note: Not included is airfare, transportation, or hotel stay. We recommend you book your stay at the nearby Claremont Hotel. Of course you are also welcome to stay anywhere in the Berkeley area.

Love + Leather enrollment is currently closed.

Place your name below to get on our waitlist. You'll be the first to hear when doors open again.

Dr Cat

Dr. Cat Meyer, PsyD, LMFT is a licensed psychotherapist specializing in sex, trauma, and ketamine-assisted therapy (KAP), author, yoga teacher, and international speaker dedicated to evolving the relationship we have surrounding sexuality and our bodies. Dr Cat is the founder of SexLoveYoga.com, an online platform integrating various schools of thought including science, tantra, yoga, psychedelic therapy, and psychology designed to help people create a deeply fulfilling, prosperous relational and sexual life. As an expert and published researcher on the topic of sexual health, Dr. Cat sees clients in her private practice office in Beverly Hills and leads workshops, lectures, and retreats internationally. Dr. Cat is the host of the podcasts Eat.Play.Sex and Erotically Wasted, co-founder of Un.done women’s sensual yoga experience.  Dr Cat has been a student + facilitator of Tantra + the energetic erotic arts for 12 years + BDSM for 10 years.

@sexloveyoga

Colette Pervette

Colette is a professional Dominatrix, where she has been practicing the art of intimacy and power exchange for over 18 years. Colette is an Educatrix. She holds a PhD in Education from UC Berkeley, where her research focuses on misconceptions and conceptual change. Through her teaching and writing, Colette dispels misconceptions about kink, sexwork, and alternative sexuality. She has cultivated an alchemical philosophy and spiritual approach to the art of kink that she shares through her work. She is the Creatrix of MistressClass, an online course where she has guided hundreds of aspiring Dommes to step into their power and explore a he(art)tistic approach to Female Domination. Colette is a Shamanatrix where she guides seekers through a healing and psychospiritual journey working with ritual and the potent medicine of the earth. To learn more about Colette, you can go down the rabbit hole of pervette.com

 

@colettepervette

Reserve your spot today and get ready to indulge in a weekend of powerful, sensual, play.

WE'RE IN

Booking Policy

By placing your deposit with us you are reserving a space on our retreat and agreeing to our policies stated in our AGREEMENT.  If cancellation takes place before June 1 then any payments made will be refunded minus your deposit (25% + fees).  If cancellation takes place after June 1st then 100% of your trip price will be forfeited. To cancel your retreat you must notify Hannah (retreat manager) in writing at [email protected]

All prices are per couple, and all deposits are non-refundable.  Final payments are due 75 days prior to departure and will be charged to your card on file.